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The Feeling Behind the Feeling: Grief Anger Shame
RESOURCES
POEMS
- http://williamayot.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Three-Poems-for-OE-GAS.pdf NB Mr Nice Guy and The Mongrel was written for this event
- The other poems William read were from his book The Inheritance
QUOTES - Sue Parker Hall: If a heartbeat is the vital sign of physical life, anger is the vital sign of emotional life.
- Sobonfu Some quote for dealing with shame: Love ’em up good!
- Shame is the rupture of the interpersonal bridge, the bridge is ruptured and all of a sudden there is shame. The interpersonal bridge is the invisible energetic bridge between someone that we love, between parent and child, between lover and lover, between employee and employer. That interpersonal bridge is about the fact that we come expect a certain amount of respect, that the other person is going to get us and understand us. And when we say something and do something and the other person feels misunderstood or dropped or mis-attuned: Gershen Kaufman
- Shame is an experience of the disintegration of the felt sense of self in relation to the dysregulating other Patricia DeYoung
BOOKS
- Book: Anger Rage and Relationships by Sue Parker Hall
- Book: Facing the Fire by John Lee.
- William Ayot’s books http://williamayot.com/shop/
- Juliet Grayson’s book: Landscapes of the Heart: The working world of a sex and relationship therapist.
JULIET & WILLIAM’S MAILING LIST
To join the mailing list for workshops with Juliet (this includes PBSP, training on how to work with couples, etc etc) www.therapyandcounselling.co.uk/sign-up-for-info/
OTHER TALKS BY WILLIAM AND JULIET
List of most of the titles is here https://therapyandcounselling.co.uk/recordings-of-talks/
Find the actual talks by creating a free account, and then looking here https://jandw.thinkific.com/
EVENTS RUN BY WILLIAM or WILLIAM AND JULIET
- To see the full calendar of events go to https://therapyandcounselling.co.uk/
- William Ayot is co-leading The Men’s Room: An Enquiry into Modern Man with Nicholas Janni. This will be an online programme starting November 2020 (he will probably run another one, to be put on the waiting list email juliet@therapyandcounselling.co.uk
- Fathers and Sons Rites of Passage planned for late 2023
- Residential workshops that Juliet and William run together every 2 years
EVENTS RUN BY JULIET
Juliet runs the following events
1) Ongoing groups (8 days a year) in Bristol, and South Wales. NExt groups starting in early 2023
2) Residential Pesso Boyden Experiential Workshop in Somerset or Monmouthshire (4 day) – several times a year: https://therapyandcounselling.co.uk/pesso-events-2022/
3) One to one PBSP structures face to face or via zoom. Juliet has a LONG waiting list for these.
4) Couples intensive sessions with Juliet. There is a LONG waiting list for these.
5) Couples therapy with Juliet. There is a LONG waiting list for these.
6) Juliet and her team (Nicola Jones, Bernd Leygraf, Peter Gregory, Kim Wallis, Zofia Zorbyski) run a 6 module course (12 days) on how to work with couples. Face to face and online. See calendar for these events See this page for more info about the 6 modules. There are vacancies on these courses
COACHING
William Ayot offers coaching sessions online.
BESPOKE RITUALS
William also offers bespoke rituals