ONLINE 2 HOUR Talks

RECORDINGS OF THESE TALKS: If you’d like to purchase the recording.

Go to jandw.thinkific.com to find the talks. See the list below

THE ‘EXPLORING SHAME’ SERIES 1: FOR THE GENERAL PUBLIC
with William Ayot and Juliet Grayson
Currently on offer for £10 each, or £50 for the whole series (usual price £15 each and £75 for the series) 
Shame is an endemic issue that is often not recognised.  William Ayot and Juliet Grayson will be drilling down into various issues around the topic of shame.  These recordings are for therapists and the general public.  You can choose to listen to just one, or buy all of them as a package.
1) The Hidden Face of Shame 75 mins click here
2) The Engines of Shame 75 mins click here 
3) Shame, Trauma and Abuse 80 mins click here 
4) Shame and Relationships 80 mins click here 
5) Shame and Betrayal 85 mins click here
6) Treating Shame, Tools and Techniques 90 mins click here
7) Shame: Q and A click here
This can be purchased as a complete series, or individual sessions click here

EXPLORING SHAME SERIES 2 FOR THE GENERAL PUBLIC
with Juliet Grayson and William Ayot
NB we have tried to minimise repeating content from Series 1.
Currently on offer for £10 each, or £50 for the whole series (usual price £15 each and £75 for the series) 
1) The Nuts and Bolts of Shame click here
2) Breaking the Cycle: Treating Shame click here 
3) Subtle Poison of Shame: How We Unwitttingly Hurt Each Other and Pass Shame On click here 
4) Growing Up With Shame: Children of Shame click here
5) Shame Sex and The Body click here 
6) Shame Trauma Dysfunction and Abuse click here

POETRY READINGS, and TALKS AROUND POETRY

  • The Nightingale in the Soul: Poetry and the Masculine Heart – William Ayot 60 mins £5 click here
  • Coming Home: Men and the Search for Soul – Poetry – William Ayot 90 mins £5 click here
  • Over The Hills & Far Away: Poetry, Grief and War – William Ayot (This was a fundraising event for the war in Ukraine in 2022).  60 mins £5 click here
  • Poetry To Raise Spirits: Fundraising for Mind – William Ayot 15 mins £0 click here
  • Soul and Psyche: The Healing Journey of Poetry – William Ayot 90 mins £10 click here

RITUAL

  • How to Deepen Your Connection Through the Power of Ritual – Audio only – William Ayot £0 click here
  • A Man’s Need for Ritual – A Podcast for The Art of Manliness.  Brett Mckay interviews William Ayot £0 click here 

DEATH AND DYING

  • Talking to the Stranger Part 1: Death as a Natural and Normal Part of Life – Part 1 The Necessary Conversation William Ayot and Juliet Grayson 86 minutes £10 click here
  • Talking to the Stranger Part 2: The Practicalities with William Ayot and Juliet Grayson £10 click here

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT 

  • Four Ways of Being & The Tides of Life: with William Ayot and Juliet Grayson.  75 minutes. 
    Many of us live only part of our lives. Turning away or turning inward, we miss tide after tide of opportunity and experience. Some, affected by other’s moods and behaviours, give themselves away, losing power and volition. Others, shrinking to protect some hidden part of themselves, never get to be seen or fulfil their potential. click here
  • Healing Men’s Souls – William Ayot interviewed by Andrew Marshall £0 click here
  • War and the Soul: For Remembrance Day November 2022 With Wiliam Ayot and Simon Roe 45 mins £10 click here 

SUPERVISION

  • Compassion for the Perpetrator.  Part of a conference on supervision. William Ayot and Juliet Grayson 40 mins click here

TALKS BY OTHERS THAT MIGHT BE USEFUL

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

  • Are You Leading a Life of Quiet Desperation: Simon Roe interviewed by Andrew Marshall: £0 click here
  • An Interview about Men and Domestic Abuse with Simon Roe 30 mins Free click here
  • Boys! Understanding where boys are coming from, how to talk to them and how to motivate them.   Recorded from a workshop run by Lucinda Neall (author of  Bringing out the Best in Boys and About our Boys .  240 minutes £50  click here
  • Understanding Teenagers and How to Support Them Through Adolescence 5 hours 40 mins     £50 with Lucinda Neall, author of How To Talk To Teenagers click here
  • Vicarious Trauma – Resonating with our past.  Juliet Grayson 30 minutes.  This talk was given as part of a fundraiser for the War in Ukraine. click here
  • Anger Rage and Shame Appetisers – Sue Parker Hall – 60 minutes £5 click here 
  • Reducing Sexual Abuse by Working with the Perpetrator: An Interview with Juliet Grayson 30 mins £5 click here

WORKING WITH COUPLES: FOR THERAPISTS

  • Working With Couples: The Basics 30 mins      £0 click here
  • Working with Couples: Why Bother 60 mins    £3 click here

RELATIONSHIP ISSUES: FOR THE GENERAL PUBLIC

  • Self Differentiation; Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You? – Juliet Grayson interviewed by Andrew Marshall (53 mins) £0 click here
  • How To Negotiate Skillfully to Reach a Win:Win in Relationships 60 mins.  Juliet Grayson: £0  click here
  • The Most Important Relationship Skill: Part 1 Unedited.  Juliet Grayson: £10 click here
  • The Most Important Relationship Skill: Part 2 Unedited.  Juliet Grayson: £10 click here
  • Sex and Sexual Problems: Q and A with Juliet Grayson 90 mins £10 click here
  • After The Affair: Rebuilding Relationships After Infidelity Juliet Grayson 2 hours: £35 click here
  • An Interview with Juliet Grayson.  This is about Juliet’s book – Landscapes of the Heart – The Working World of a Sex and Relationship Therapist.  Over half the book describes Pesso Boyden therapy in practice. 60 mins £0 click here

PESSO BOYDEN SYSTEM OF PSYCHOTHERAPY: FOR THE GENERAL PUBLIC

  • Bessel van der Kolk talking about PBSP – 3 minutes – £0 click here 
  • Childhood Sexual Abuse: The Body Keeps the Score – 10 topics from the Pesso Pesso Boyden framework for  trauma-informed therapeutic healing 95 mins with Juliet Grayson £10 click here  
  • PSBSP Live Therapy Session from start to finish (Deborah) 75 mins  £1 (Juliet Grayson is the therapist) click here 
  • PBSP Techniques & Theory 1: 90 mins £3 Juliet Grayson click here
  • PBSP From the Client’s Perspective (An interview with the client John Wilson (of Online Events) and therapist Juliet Grayson.  Includes 40 minutes of film of his session.  75 mins £1  click here 
  • How PBSP Helps With Attachment, The Trauma Thrivers Podcast.    Juliet Grayson £0 click here 
  • The Body Speaks It’s Mind: Pesso Boyden Healing with Sandy Cotter. 140 minutes £0 click here
  • The Pesso Method: Healing Deficits in Basic Needs – Sally Potter (80 mins) £0 click here